Relation-ship- Bifurcating the word “Relation and Ship”…A ship when visualized indicates stability…… Associated with a leisurely charm…. …an entity that does not bother to compete much with its other transportation cousins … roadways &airways…yet it has an air of authority and an old world charm. Both words Relation and Ship however indicate a flux… moments of continuous movements…slow and sturdy ideally at least…

Human kind today is a new evolved breed.He is a mish mash of logic and emotion.. in varying proportions..

Class-A : Some are Hardcore Robots .. 99% Logica+ 1% Emotica

Class-B : Some others Softcore Robots…80% Logica + 20% Emotica

Class-C : Some others are 60% Logica +40% Emotica…

Class-D : Some others are 40% Logica +60% Emotica…

Further Logic is static it can be this or that… emotion on the other hand indicates flux.it rules illogicality…It can be this and that, that and this…a bit of This and some of that… etc..

Lets leave the hardcore and soft-core categories out of our discussion… They are only Skin deep 😉

Now that the mathematics has been sorted and our focus is on Class C&D… Lets get into deeper realms…

Physically a person would appear the same in the morning and evening… yet he has been a flux at the various levels, through varying amount of degrees… changes in the physical realm are obviously less visible compared to the changes at the mental realm… though completely invisible..

Now for some Dictionary definitions.

Relationshipthe way in which two or more people or groups regard and behave towards each other.

EmotionA mental state that arises spontaneously rather than through conscious effort and is often accompanied by physiological changes; a feeling

Another important aspect is the juxtaposing of emotions onto a relation…There is a superimposition…. Now when the 2 individuals meet, rather their two energies meet…there are actions and reactions … At one level 2 becomes 3 and yet at another level the 2 become 1…

Needless to say other than the above there are a fair share of distractions and provocations and animations…They are ok, its natural.. its not the end of the world..it simply goes onto indicate that you have luckily married/living in with a human being and not a robot…Cl-ass A….

Being irritated/upset and vocal about it is also a sign of LIFE, a sign of Aliveness.. which a Robot is not…Lets try and understand it a bit more…

Logic is always consistent… But then emotions swing and swagger…are wild… are animated…are waves.. rise and ebb.. are hidden beneath the surface…

If you watch your emotions closely… they keep swinging from one branch to another and back… are pretty rhythm-atic..

For ex, how most individuals feel on a Sunday Evening… thinking of Monday Morning Blues…

or on a better note..

How most individuals feel on a Friday evening.. week on week.. though they know that Friday evenings are only a temporary phase…blink ur eyes and its Monday again ;)..

But the swinging of emotions at a personal level happens unconsciously.. with our not being aware of it.

You are aware of it on Fridays and Mondays.. Just shift this awareness inwards…and spot the swing…ride the swing.

Quoting an oft and beaten to death example…

Ur walking barefoot on a dark dark new moon night… and suddenly you feel that you have stamped on something slithery…you freeze momentarily… you scream wildly and jump to avoid a bite…And then after your breathing normalizes  ..through your mobile flashlight you realize that it was a darned rope…

But now that there is a streak of realization, that under the flash light.. the entire perspective changed…Try and catch yourself when riding the wave of emotions… with this flash light focused inward ….. Through the heightened alertness, try to spot the ride on the wave..

In the age of Facebook Likes and Dislikes, what better way to co-relate our swings to the Emoticons ;).. Tick ur emotions onto the emoticon daily…time it…check for a pattern…

moticons-collections
Courtesy-4vector.com

Whats the benefit??? one may ask…

Simply put… there is no benefit… but yes there is transformation… There is a change… not from the other.. from within you…There is a deeper realization, a deeper understanding…of yourself…there is a break away from a preconditioned pattern…The other can sense this change and a subtle re-alignment of energies happen of their own accord..

Come to think of it, though we call ourselves free willed individuals, are responses can be categorized and predicted  alongside the Pavlovian Dog…

If you are OK, Iam OK

If you are friendly, I am friendly..

If you are angry, I am angry dammit…

If you are in the mood, then SO AM I 😉

Unfortunately, given the times we are in… where the focus is always to focus on the other, most of the times..we forget/overlook to focus within…It’s not difficult.. but then sure is slithery ;)…

Having said this.. and somebody having read this… now please don’t set a goal that from now on… I will not blah blah and more blah…

Just be more aware of your own internal patterns and hard wiring… And Walk the path, slip and fall, enjoy it, get up and walk again… we take things too damn seriously… Loosen up..Relax and Smile…Slowly and Slowly, the more you decode the hard wiring in you…the more you understand yourself.. and accept yourself..  and smile knowingly at yourself… and when you understand yourself fully???

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