As in my earlier blogs, a simple graphical representation can clear the air compared to a lengthy discourse..as my previous blog ended up as. So here goes…a stripped down version….

When individual performance… evaluation… acceptance or behavior (in blue line) is not in phase…lags.. with respect to ” Expectations”:as depicted below in Red line… its a Hangover Time.. A time of rejection… A Time when “All Eyes” look down upon You”…A Failure…A Misfit…. Internally You are a Confused Concoction..All hazy…alone..

Hangover phase... guilt phase...Condemnatory phase... Courtesy -www.regentsprep.org
PIC-1———————— You always “LAG” wrt Expectations…An out of phase individual .. Pic Courtesy -www.regentsprep.org

And chemicals are a great catalyst… a great inducement agent…the plot of “Expectation” is erased….its Hallelujah Time. You are Yourself…(ref the pic-2 below)

You forget all about Expectations... Its only you who exists...@ peace... the way you are... with the positive and the negative... complete.. Pic Courtesy-www.solarstik.com
Pic-2…………………..You forget all about Expectations… Its only you who exists…alone… the way you are… with the positive and the negative… complete..                       Pic Courtesy-www.solarstik.com

The role of Religion and Society

Religion either intentionally or otherwise focuses …. Only on the positive sine curve(the wave above the horizontal line)… but humans undergo both the positive and negative sine curve(wave).. and then the “Religious”  exert leverage and induce guilt over the common man by stating that to experience the negative sine curve is “SIN”… See the pattern…See the gap between the two curves ref the 1st pic above… and then one is always trying to play catch up…you are never in sync…with Life…

And Society always expects Maturity…Finesse.. Artificial Sophistication..and other such bullshit…

There is no room for the negative wave/emotions(below the horizontal line ref the above graph)…no space to express.. its uncouth…its your inability to cope…you are a misfit…

All I would suggest is… that its your journey of Life… You can be independent… and walk the journey alone…its your life… your journey and no one else can walk it for you…do not outsource it to others… you are your best fit… just walk it with awareness…

For a brief background on Awareness…please refer the link

https://swamikosho.wordpress.com/2015/11/01/alertness-awareness-a-now-ness-and-a-mango/

For the below is the fit of each individual against the “IDEAL” Sine wave(the smooth black wave below)….You are never perfect…You are always imperfect… In realizing your imperfection… in accepting your imperfection… you have stumbled upon a liberating key…that the perfect wave is the one that “YOU” create..of whatever pattern(ref the blue and red patterns). not the one that society or religion sells to you….(the smooth black wave)

A perfect Mismatch....Welcome to Life...
PIC-3……………………….A perfect Mismatch….Welcome to Life…Welcome Yourself
Advertisements